Recognizing Each Other

Recognizing Each Other

    Recognizing each other is a communication between people and people, animals and animals, and other living things. But sometimes people can recognize animals well, because they live with animals since they were kids. Now let’s read the paragraphs below.

The communication between males and females

Normally when we are adults, boys and girls usually communicate with each other. This factor shows that their appearances, feelings, and social psychologies. In society they should communicate with everybody (males and females). To make these relationships you should know what do your partners like, dislike, and their feelings. You can start to be active in class and society. You ought to join the members in community or attend the social works, because you can meet lots of people there. And you also can make relationships with them. You should remember that you don’t have to join the most popular group to make relationships. Please read the paragraphs below to get more information about making relationships:

                                           Chapter I.        Friendship

Friendship is the most important factor to make a successful relationship. Those communications will be able to last for long time including weddings also begin from these relationships.

Friendships will be able to last for long time if the partners to suitable behaviors, the same ideas and understand the value of each other. Every people who want to swindle the others can’t last their relationship for long time.

·        Speaking: you should talk to others pleasantly, cordially, and with smile face. These actions are a sign that you want to make a relationship. You ought to listen to others carefully and give the chance to them to talk. You shouldn’t admire yourself.

·        Acknowledging the others’ characteristic: everybody always has different characteristic. You shouldn’t mock or scorn others. The best way is you should understand their characteristic.

·        Esteeming one another: you should esteem with he/she first, before accepting someone to attend he/she to do something with you.

Friendship can begin with everybody who is surrounded you such as parents, siblings, classmates, neighborhoods...etc. Teenagers should know how to glorify unities and relations without discriminating. Friendship should be a relation with valuation, honestly, broadly, and confidence with each other. Friendship is a step that forward to a successful relation. These are 5 ways to make the communication step forward:

1.      Respecting: respecting others is a way to support the honor and valuation, and acknowledge the others’ characteristic.

2.      Responsibilities: everyone can assist you, you should do your duties with responsibilities and you should divide the mistakes, the best, and the worst clearly.

3.      Favoring: you should acknowledge others’ characteristic such as concepts, opinions, clothes, and feelings... That means your feelings should go along with the others’ feelings.

4.      Sacrifice: sometimes you have to abandon your authorities, moral forces, relationships for the advantages.

5.      Paying attention: you should worry and pay attention on the feelings and everything your partners need. It means if you love or like someone you must take care and surround him/her.

Friendship is the most important thing in our lives, especially teenagers. Depends on friendships many teenagers can understand and gather many experiences for their lives.

                           Chapter II.        Feelings and Loves

    Friendships between girls and boys begin with admiring each other and understanding each other. After that they will develop from friends to couples.

      Feelings’ snatching is the way to win the hearts for a short period of time. Normally, this feeling can be removed or sometimes we can make sweet relations.

      Love is affection, especially males and females. Love will develop from very small to a really big love when the couples understanding each other well.

                                          Chapter III.        Meeting

      Meeting starts with the communications between males and females. We meet in the purpose of understanding each other well. Meeting is a contract between two or several people to meet each other at somewhere and a definite time.

       First males and females can see each or recognize each other by attending the visions or other ceremonies such as parties and picnics. When they are falling in love with each other, they invite each other to other ceremonies. The partners can accept or refuse the invitations depends on the feelings. In this situation parents should examine and understand their meetings clearly when they are teenagers.

      Meeting with valuation and relations will have lots of advantages for their communications, because they can have chance to understand the person that they want to live with.

1.      Types of meeting

Meetings have three types:

a.      Group meetings:

It’s the first step of communications between males and females. They can organize many programs with many appearances such as competitions, journeys, visiting places, and parties...etc.

b.      Pair meetings:

This kind of meeting usually happens between males and females that have the same ages and that have that have almost the same favorites. This kind of meeting can also be another partner. This presence can console only the feelings for the first meetings.

c.      The meetings between two people:

This kind of meeting usually happens between a boy and a girl who agree to go out with each other. Teenagers must not meet each other (only two people). You should meet in group for discussions and having lots of great time with each other.

2.      The advantages of meetings

Meetings can give us a lot of advantages depend on different kind of meetings:

Meetings for happiness to have lots of great time with the person we love or like. The communications in society give the chances to teenagers to understand each other and glorify the attitudes in communicating and create the conversation with happiness.

Meetings give the chances to single people can establish friendship. Finally, they can choose their wives or husbands.

All of the memories and attitudes can build when the meeting is a step of understanding the feelings, engaging, and wedding. They also can know how to control their feelings.

3.      The attributes and attitudes in meetings

In the meetings you should apply these actions:

·        Tell the parents the place that you gotta go. Notice the definite time that you will return home.

·        You should invite you are going to go with to your home to introduce him/her to your family.

·        You shouldn’t spend your money too much. If you must spend your money for the meetings, you shouldn’t buy something that is too expensive.

·        You should return home on time.

·        You shouldn’t talk about bad things or say bad words.

·        If you don’t want to go out with someone, you should refuse it in polite way.

The Background of Study

Recognizing each other is the way to find friends and wives or husbands for everyone’s future. It’s the first step to begin a relationship and a happy family. And everyone can’t avoid from having families. Everybody has to cross these situations. But I think it’s great to have a family and being the owner of my own life. That’s also nice to be a wife or a husband and being a parent. Recognizing each other also gives us lots of advantages such as we can have a happy family...etc. For instance, before having a happy family, we should understand the feelings of each other before we get married. So, we can have a nice family. In fact, I also make a friendship by working in groups. It’s nice to be his friend and spending time with him. It’s the reason that I take this topic.